I know what it’s like to have no control over your situation.

I know what it’s like to feel alone with no one who understands what you’re going through.

I know what it’s like to deal with a high conflict ex… and to sometimes be a high conflict ex!

I know that sharing custody really sucks sometimes.

But over the past decade I’ve learned that even though I can’t control my situation, I can always shift my perspective and choose to be happy no matter what.

For years, I felt powerless and out of control during an intense custody battle an divorce. It was so hard to navigate alone and there were days when I struggled to even get out of bed.

Things started shifting for me when I decided to follow my intuition.

What would have been my worst nightmare became my greatest blessing. I decided to go against logic and let my oldest daughter live with her dad. It was a decision that didn't make sense at the time, but I knew in my heart that I was following inspired guidance. Ultimately that decision has blessed both of our families and given me the freedom and power to live a life full of joy through the trials.

ashley machele


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Whether you are in a blended family, looking for intuitive guidance, or just curious about how we do things differently around here, I'm holding space for you. 

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I've been there too.

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